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ABOUT RUSSELL WILLINGHAM

Russell Willingham surrendered his life to Jesus in 1978 at the tender age of sixteen. From that point on, he sought to know God more deeply and to immerse himself in Scripture. As a teenager, he often hiked into the desert to find some place to pray and worship. His pursuit of God was motivated not only by a desire to grow but also by a desire to heal from painful childhood traumas. For the next nine years, he continued to study and pray. He assisted his pastor in preaching and teaching responsibilities and also spoke at open-air events and youth rallies. In 1987, God called him to move from the California desert to the Central Valley of California. Based on a word from the Lord (“I have a work for you to do in Fresno”), he packed up his earthly belongings and relocated his wife and small son three hundred miles north. In Fresno, God did two things. Number one, while working in the sheet metal industry, God used him to plant a small church and serve as an associate pastor at another church. Number two, God allowed the cracks in his marriage to surface. During this time, all of the buried trauma from his childhood came screaming to the top as well. With great reluctance, he sought out a Christian therapist. He thought his life was falling apart, but this is when (to his great surprise) his life began falling into place. The process involved horrible pain, profound depression, and a complete reevaluation of his faith. He didn’t leave his faith or try to “deconstruct” it, but he did go back and ruthlessly examine what he believed. From that time on, he determined to find out the truth about Jesus and the Bible and get rid of any religious myths or distortions that he carried. The first thing to go was his religious pride as he came face-to-face with the lifelong brokenness he’d been running from since childhood. The psychological insights he discovered didn’t drive him further from Christ or Scripture; instead, these truths plunged him deeper into both. Jesus began to touch the wounds in his life and slowly remake Russell into a healthier version of himself. In 1993, when he was offered a full-time position with New Creation Ministries, the Lord told him, “This is ‘the work’ I was referring to back in the desert.” On that basis, he quit his prevailing wage job and joined a ministry that relied on donations. He hasn’t looked back since. Since joining NCM, he has become a sought-after speaker. He has traveled around the United States speaking to such diverse groups as Cru, Youth For Christ, InterVarsity Christian Fellowship, The Restored Hope Network, The American Association of Christian Counselors, and many churches, retreats, and conferences. His first book, Breaking Free, was published by InterVarsity Press in 1999. It has sold over forty-two thousand copies and has been translated into Polish and Dutch. His second InterVarsity book, Relational Masks, was published in 2004. This book was translated into Korean. He is excited to introduce his newest book, The Relational Revolution. Russell loves to write and speak, but his first love is counseling. For him, there’s nothing better than sitting down one-on-one with somebody who is broken and looking for hope (and isn’t that all of us sometimes?). The Relational Revolution emerges from over thirty years of walking with people through some of their deepest darkness and greatest breakthroughs. Russell lives with his wife, Paula, in Fresno, California. They have three grown children with families of their own. They love to spend time with their five grandchildren and the delightful, quirky friends God has given them.

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My Mission

My mission is to invite people into deeper intimacy—with God, with others, and with their own hearts. I believe that healing is not a distant hope, but a reality we step into through honest, grace-filled relationships.

For too long, many of us have carried pain, shame, and spiritual confusion behind religious masks. We’ve learned how to perform, how to impress, and how to hide. But what if the pathway to freedom wasn’t found in trying harder—but in being known?

Through my writing, speaking, and counseling, I walk with people into those hard, sacred spaces where transformation happens. Whether in a quiet counseling session or in front of a thousand people, my goal is the same: to create space for truth, healing, and deep spiritual connection.

I’m not here to offer formulas. I’m here to offer presence. My mission is to reflect the heart of Jesus—the One who sees us as we are and loves us there. I want to help others move from isolation to relationship, from hiding to healing, and from spiritual survival to true, abundant life.

This is not just ministry—it’s my calling, and it’s the very path God used to heal me first.

My VISION

The Vision: To heal individuals, families, churches, and communities so they can do the greatest good at the deepest levels to promote the best possible outcomes.

 

The Problem: The church of Jesus Christ is the hope of the world. But there is a problem. The church is becoming increasingly broken, bound, and ineffective. Is it a funding issue? No. The resources exist to fund every worthy ministry effort (once those with vision are connected to those with resources). Is it a lack of programs? No. Many excellent ministries and initiatives exist to benefit the needs both inside and outside the body of Christ. Is it a lack of drive or passion? For some, it is, but many have a God-given calling and eagerness to address the real needs, and they are working hard to do so.

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What Guides My Work

Honest Relationships

I believe the path to healing begins with vulnerability. Freedom starts when we remove the mask and let others—and God—see us as we truly are.

Gospel-Centered Healing

Emotional and relational health must be rooted in the transforming power of the cross. I don’t offer psychology apart from Jesus—I offer Jesus who heals through truth.

Courageous Conversations

I’m not afraid to talk about the hard stuff—addiction, shame, trauma, and spiritual confusion—because that’s where light breaks in.

Deep Discipleship

True spiritual growth isn’t about image—it’s about formation. I help people move beyond shallow faith into real, whole-hearted following of Christ.

Let’s Walk This Journey Together

Whether you're a pastor, counselor, ministry leader, or someone longing for healing—I want you to know you're not alone. My greatest joy is walking alongside those who are hungry for transformation, even when it comes through pain. If something in my story or message speaks to you, I’d love to connect further.

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